10 Steps To Fabulous Cunnilingus
Now this article isn’t originally mine, but if I had written about cunnilingus, it would be almost exactly like this one except maybe for #9 Lick the alphabet…
The second thing that made me want to share it with you is the fact that Mr Will Pheeler form TheDailySpank.net tried it with his girlfriend and said:

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I came across this “tutorial” and thought I would share it with you. And yes, I “tried it out” last night with the GF and, well, two thumbs up! Enjoy, and let me know your “results”.
If an other man was able to follow the instruction and remember them while in the act, so can everyone!
A Step-By-Step Guide To Oral Sex
(For Guys and Lesbians Only)
By a Cunning-Lingist
- Start with the nipples. Sounds simple but be gentle! Most girls have extremely sensitive breasts so lick and suck (gently) while you touch her stomach, thighs, knees, inner thighs and, eventually, her vagina. Make sure and spend “equal time” on each breast.
- Make your way down to her vulva by kissing and licking her stomach, especially the sides (or, her ribs). Don’t spend all day on her belly just “take your time” getting to “the good stuff”. Anticipation is a real turn-on and if you move slowly you send the impression that you’re not just doing this out of obligation, or as a means to receive oral sex yourself.
- When you reach her vagina DO NOT immediately lick it! Rather, take both hands and, using your thumbs, slide them (gently, always gently at first) up-and-down the sides of her vaginal lips. Then, pause a moment and lick your thumbs to wet them. Then repeat sliding your thumbs up-and-down the sides of her vagina.
- Now it’s time to “get down” – but wait! Don’t just ‘dive in there” like it’s your last meal. Use the flat part of your tongue to lick the sides of her vaginal lips, up-and-down, a few times. This will tease her and make her want your tongue all the more!
- Hopefully you still have your thumbs handy so use them to gently spread the hood of her vagina, exposing the clitoris. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT: Use the flat part of your tongue (NOT the “tip”) to softly lick her clit. As you do it more and more you can increase the intensity but spend a minute or two going slow first.
- NOW use the tip of your tongue to lick her clit, flicking it up-and-down. Again, you want to be relatively gentle until you feel her getting close to orgasm (where you will intensify your actions). Occasionally use your thumbs to rub the sides of her vagina as you flick her clit.
- Take one hand and insert one finger (at first) inside her vagina, about half-way in. Slide it in-and-out like it’s your dick and you’re fucking her – but go slowly! Continue to lick her clit while you do this. Every once in a while push your finger all the way in. Vary your strokes.
- Insert a second finger inside her vagina. She should be ‘getting close” to cumming soon and two fingers will feel more like your dick to her.
- Lick the ‘Alphabet’. While you’re working her clitoris gently outline letters with your tongue as you lick. “A”, then “B”, then “C”, running through all the letters in the alphabet. This is The Key – by the time you reach the letter “T” she should be screaming with a shattering orgasm!
- BONUS: IF your girl has no “hang-ups” in this area, somewhere between Step #6 and #7 (gently) move one finger around the outside of her anus. Experiment with how far she wants you to go – insert your finger, maybe even lick her asshole, etc. The anus has millions of nerve endings so, if done properly, this little ‘extra” should result in massive pleasure!
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Val:
The tutorial missed the effective option of actually sucking your woman’s clit, in addition to the alphabet trick; and light use of teeth works wonders. And the effect of fingers and a tongue in and around the asshole cannot be overstated!
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