Why Penis Size Matter?
I wanted to talk about penis size today. I’m so sick of women who pretend to adore enormous cocks. It is just a lie.
From experience:
- An enormous cock is a challenge - not a good one.
- An enormous cock can’t get all inside
- thus you never feel full
- and you can’t feel your partner’s pubis on yours
- thus it doesn’t stimulate your clitoris
- An enormous cock fucking hurts.
- An enormous cock isn’t fun to suck - forget about deep throat.
- An enormous cock is scary.
I’ll stop right here (for now) and won’t apologize to those of you who have an enormous cock if what I said made you feel unsuited.
Maybe I have a small vagina. But I doubt it. One of my friend tried the same enormous cock I’m referring to as my experience and she felt the same way I did. 
The perfect penis size titillates the back of my throat, it doesn’t suffocate me.
This post is a message to all men who wish they had a bigger penis while theirs is probably just the perfect size.
It is also a post to the men who had the impudence to tell me that my partner’s penis was to small and that theirs were much better because bigger.
I’m a real woman (not a man disguised as woman who writes a blog about her sex life - gosh I hate those too!!!) and I love a penis that fits in my two hands while I can lick the head or suck it tenderly. That’s about how long a penis should be.
As for the diameter, it has to be just about the same size as my wrist…
Ok guys… I have very small hands (size 7) and wrist (less then 6 inches circumference)
So please stop saying you have a big penis to attract women and stop worrying about your penis size if it doesn’t look as big as the last porno you downloaded.
Are you or did you ever worried about your penis size? Do you (still) think that women prefer the super size cock? I’d love your comments on that!
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In that case, my size, like a work of ancient marble sculpture, is perfect…
Yes, absolutely Ed
Yes Yes Ed we all are perfect
Nearly everything can be described as a bell curve, and that includes cock and vagina size. Some of both men and women fall into either side of that curve, and will probably be happiest with someone that is on the same side of the curve as them (actually this preference is probably a bell curve itself.)
If I remember correctly the Karma Sutra makes reference to something along these lines. (a quick google search shows me that I do remember correctly, it is actually the first page of Chapter 1.)
For those who are in the low part of the bell curve like me and don’t know what it is you can learn with this wikipedia information page.
Thanks for pointing this interesting point of view Aaron. Tho I haven’t read the whole article on wiki, I am already having some spikes on my head.
I will go look for my bell curve hold on
You do not need a bell curve to understand that having a big cock is not every womens wishes as much guys do not always search those big tities porno girls. All this has been created and pushed by the media.
Most of the peoples only want someone they feel great with, respected and free to live their sexuality without being judged every time that you or her/him are having a dirty fantasy. The result is a great sex life as long that you learn to look at the other as a sexual being having dirty minded needs same as yours during the sex games.
Valerie, after reading your comment I think I need to clear something up. I am not referring to the book you linked to in your post, (which I have read, and as a psychologist almost categorically disagree with) but instead to the general idea of normal distribution, which unfortunately has a math heavy and not very friendly Wikipedia entry.
What I was trying to say is that the distribution of both penis and vagina sizes fit into a normative distribution curve, but most of the time when we try to look at ‘what women want’ in penis size we never take into account that vagina size is also distributed.
In other words, women with smaller vaginas will, more often then not, prefer men with smaller penises, and vice versa. It is not really all that profound a statement, but it is something that almost all the research (and our consequent conversations) fails to take into account.
On a personal note, I would never dare attempt to suggest that you personally are on the low end of the intelligence curve. I, and I feel that can probably speak for most of your constant readers in this, read your blog because I find your writing to be eloquent, insightful, and fiercely brave. Thank you for that.
Thank you Aaron for clarifying things up. As Eric said, “The Media” brainwashes our ideas about sexuality and I guess that’s what I was aiming at.
I guess reality isn’t selling enough for those multi-billion industries. It’s just to bad us that we have no choice but to look at it at some point or an other even tho we have the strongest will to say no.
Anyway… thanks also for the sweet comment about my writing. It touches me a lot since I consider it be quite mediocre compare to what I could do in french. But it would be no good and worst then my english because then almost no one would understand
I’ve been worried about my penis size since a girl dumped me for having too small of one for her. We dated a couple of times, made out at her place afterwards. On the third date, she felt me up as we were making out, and then it was all over - she feigned tiredness and said she was sleepy. I never saw her again romantically. She later said we were moving too fast. I never asked her if it was about my penis, but the cliche holds true - actions speak louder than words.
In any case Valerie, I’m smaller than your partner. So I get what you’re posting, but it doesn’t allay my worries about my size.
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Here a testimony of a couple. I (male) have been complexed all my life (even now) by the size of my cock. May be too much porn in my youth. I had lot of partners that explains me that they were completely satisfied but that never convinced me. I was thinking that they were nice with me. I have been trought the RUBBOT test and I am in the low side of the average guy.
I (female) never understood why men and specially mine, are complexing so much about that. I have know many cocks in my sex life from big to very small. My husband is on the low average that I have practiced (so the rubbot test is conform to my expierience) but IT DOESN’T MATTERS. He drives me up the wall in less than 1 minute and keep me up as long as I need (or can support). I do agree with Valerie statement: a long dick doesn’t stimulate you well (pubis & clit). I have to add something. Long dick are so sellassured of their superiority in bed that they are insufficient in preliminary too impatient they are to penetrate women with they big thing. My “biggest” partner never made me scream as I do now with my “average joe”. He hurted me more than anything else.
To conclude, never forget the sentiments are a part of the deal…
So here we are. The male will never be satified but the female is perfectly alright with that… That life. And a little bit of the Venus vs Mars theory…
Wow, thank you for sharing. This is a delicate subject and I love how you guys approached it.
“Long dick are so sellassured of their superiority in bed [...]” maybe, just maybe, that’s why the average or below cocks are such wonderful lovers…
I didn’t go read the links (at work), but I am average in length and girth (circumference), and my girlfriend likes it too.
These enormous cocks in porn can get quite out of hand (Monsters of Cock, for one), but there have been a few where the guy was ‘average’, but didn’t last very long because he was not used to ‘porn star’ girls and/or the camera.
-Josh