Phone Sex Operators
I have never called a phone sex operator nor did I engaged in a phone sex conversation with my lover. Tho I had virtual sex via IM, the phone intimidates me.
I am afraid that my fantasies would scare my interlocutor away. I feel vulnerable because it could be recorded and played against me to make me sound like the Star Wars Kid looked.
There is a great interview with (SFW) breathtaking pictures about sex phone operators on The Morning News.
What surprises appeared? How many [of these] people really loved what they did, and for so many reasons: because they felt they were helping people; because they had discovered things about themselves, sexually or otherwise; because it was often a two-way street.
I feel like these people. I feel I’m helping in someway with my pervert photos and videos. I feel I’m filling a void, a need, a dream. I hope.
Have you ever called a phone sex operator? Did you engage in a phone sex conversation with a lover? Is it something you enjoy and do regularly? I know these questions are very personal. If you don’t want to answer them, instead you can say what you think about the phone sex operators and / or the phone sex companies in the comments.
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Filed under: Sex in the News by Valerie
How your fantasies could scare peoples? As long it do not hurt anyone emotionally, all fantasies should be respected. And about phone sex or cybersex, i agree with you to stay far far far away of it because I’m having a little bit of paranoia about what it could happen after.
Sound connects people.
In the same way two people an write to each other and never meet can fall in some sort of love, talking to someone, hearing them respond to a particular word or sigh, can be as meaningful as being in the same room.
Everything we experinece we experience through our brains.
Even touch.
So it is not so strange that a voice in the dark can provide the same type of stimulus or at least as powerful as anything else we might do.
I think my fantasies would not scare anyone… they probably just scare me.
Cyber sex can be fun and is absolutely safe against disease, which is a huge + in its favor.
What I have a problem with is when cyber sex becomes emotional; it isn’t reality and is merely a fantasy that you create in your head. You are not in love with the other person you are chatting with. Your in love with the idea that you made up about this person, that is where it becomes dangerous.
Thanks for your thoughtful comments!
Your previous post asked what was sexy…
I think words and ideas are.(spoken or written)
So you are right, cyber sex (whether spoken or written) is a fantasy.
If two people we were lying right next to each other talking about sex, politics, religion etc, their ideas and sharing those ideas would reinforce a bond they had.
I can see that to do the same thing over a phone or chat isn’t an extension of the relationship, but only a shadow.